Sunflower 🌻

Christ lover💒•Coffee lover☕️•Real life Sunflower🌻•Medicinae Baccalaureus, Baccalaureus Chirurgiae🩺.

[Sizwe Dhlomo @SizweDhlomo]

Gents… nani ke kodwa nazi ukuthi ubudoda buyakhulelwa. Awuvele usuke ushaye is’cathulo nje, ungenzanga lutho. Uma ufuna bakuhloniphe, awenze into ehloniphekile. Ngiyema.

[Prof. Masilo Sepaela @MrMmetlwa]

The uncomfortable truth is that many men were socialised to understand masculinity through economic superiority: I must earn more, provide more, control more. So when the woman earns more, the threat is often not financial—it is psychological.

But a relationship is not a corporate hierarchy where the person with the larger salary becomes the CEO.

If your partner earns more than you, that does not make you less of a man. It simply means your individual incomes are unequal. What matters is whether the relationship itself is equitable, respectful and mutually supportive.

And “qina ephaketheni” is actually the whole lesson. 😂 If your ego cannot survive your woman earning more than you, the problem isn't her salary. It is the fragility of the identity you attached to your salary.

Men need to stop treating their partner's economic success as a referendum on their masculinity.

A woman's success does not diminish a man. But a man's insecurity can absolutely diminish a relationship.

[Adémọ́lá. @OgbeniDemola]

Whether it’s in Palestine. Sudan. Congo. Nigeria or Venezuela or Yemen. We are all confronted by the same enemy. No matter who you are or where you are, we are all victims of western imperialism.

[Chuck Francis @cfisonline]

as an adult you literally have 30 minutes to celebrate a win until you face another inconvenience

[Tina @Tina_Hokwana]

Once you start suspecting ukuthi ikhona into eoff, just know ikhona into eoff.

[Mamello🧚🏽‍♀️ @MelloFelicia1]

Period pains can easily be the cause of death 🤞🏽

[🦋 @azithesoulster]

And the sad part is that nobody forced me to go back to school. I did this to myself.

[Hunadi M @HunadiFlorah]

Once people know that you are a good person:

[Tory🫧💕 @ayanfe2k]

I have a deep respect for people's privacy. I can be very close to someone for years and still not know everything about them, and I never feel the need to ask. And It's not like I don't care. I believe that if someone hasn't chosen to share something, it isn't my place to ask!!

[َ @gffyoq]

"that's not realistic" yeah not for YOU, you unwhimsical mf.

[Sinethemba.🇿🇦 @cnehshuga]

Sasala kanjalo ke thina 💔

[quvria @quvria]

“anything for you baby” i whisper to myself as I make another reckless financial decision.

[Rita Styles Riri ❤️ @Rita_Arinaitwe]

I hope the guy who invented I love PDF is having a great Monday somewhere. ❤️

[RISS @going_legit]

So we pivot. And we find a way. And we keep going.

[KC🪽 @calllmekc]

This is my kinda vacation. Let’s go do the things!

[Abby🫧💕 @BigmummyAbby]

I’m sorry but these ai generated flyers for events and business are ugly asf.

[Bob leak @bobbinsleak]

Not to be dramatic but if youre playing tiktoks without headphones on public transport. Die.

[Amke. @amukelani_02]

jokes aside, i cannot wait to be a mom.🥺

[ຸ @fvckfemi_]

i think the fastest way to become who you really want is to bite off more than u can chew and figure out how to chew it

[Madame La Directrice @jenny_gxo]

You don’t need dual income with a man btw, get yourself a good friend, get your finances together and rent a nice apartment with enough space for the both of you and share all the expenses. You don’t need to do this hard life with a man