When I first got married, I called my mom to vent about an argument my husband and I were having. She stopped me mid-sentence and said, “Unless you're in danger, don’t invite other people into your marriage, not even me.”
It ended up being one of the best advice I could have received as a young wife.
I complained about the waste dirt all over Igando and some people are attacking me, Una no get sense!
maybe I will do videos and pictures for other locations too, I go dey expose una!
It’s becoming an eyesore!
A metropolitan city looking like a village.
Tokunbo used "Dear Chinedu" as a slur for a whole offspring of Rhodes-Vivour.
But you that claim to be a Lagosian, that your family house or name can't be traced is laughing and cheering him on.
Mokan mokan l'oye nkan.
If a father bathes his children, both laugh. If a son bathes his father, both cry.
🎥 A Separation, one of the greatest films ever made in Iranian cinema
🚨🗣️ Francisco Conceicao on the noise around Cristiano Ronaldo:
"For me, there is no player like Cristiano when it comes to his quality of scoring goals in that regard."
"But look, we don't have the OBLIGATION to pass him the ball or the need to... I just pass the ball to whoever is better positioned unmarked."
"Cristiano is here to help like any other player on the national team."
I used to think being a good man would make people treat me better. Lol.
Naivety dey pain die.
I learned the hard way that goodness is not a currency people are obligated to honor. Some people will take your kindness and study it for weaknesses. Some will mistake your patience for foolishness. Some will stay only because you keep giving and leave the moment giving stops.
Being good was never the problem. My mistake was thinking it came with guarantees that decency would be reciprocated, that loyalty would be returned, that effort would be matched. Life doesn’t work that way. Character is not a transaction. You don’t do good to receive good. You do good because it’s who you have decided to be, regardless of how people respond to it.
Now I understand: protect your peace, set boundaries, give from a place of fullness not desperation. Stay good. But stay wise too. The two are not opposites but they’re partners.
Goodness without discernment is just an open door for anybody to walk through and waste your time.
Be guided accordingly.
People with barely 10 years left to live are running the country and young fools are cheering them on. They’re taking your future and giving you crumbs. Illiterates