a job is genuinely my biggest fear in the whole fucking world. no summer vacation ?? spring break?? random 1 week off every now and then ?? you mean to tell me you expect me to go into work EVERYDAY ?? for the rest of my life ?? no wonder everyones killing themselves
ma in che senso elettra lamborghini è davvero una lamborghini pensavo fosse uno stage name tipo le drag queen che si chiamano bisou versace o roba del genere
People are waking up to the fact that womb-renting is disordered and unethical.
1) The physiological bond created between a baby and the woman who carried her is necessary for the child’s healthy development and is meant to continue after birth. Skin-to-skin with this woman (not just anyone) regulates baby’s heart rate and makes the stark transition to the outside world more peaceful.
We somehow understand when it comes to puppies and kittens but not with human babies.
Surrogacy, unlike adoption, *starts* with the intention of breaking this bond.
2) Surrogate pregnancies are high risk, for the surrogate and the baby. They regularly result in pre term deliveries, late term miscarriages, and NICU stays. When moms hire a surrogate, they are transferring the risk she would carry to another woman and her own child.
3) The surrogacy industry is inherently exploitative. Women who need money sign hefty contracts (often with requirements to abort if the parents so choose) to commodify their bodies. There are no background checks for the parents who purchase these surrogates, which is why this is a method used in all kinds of child-buying schemes around the globe. Obviously that’s not what’s going on with this story, but people should know it’s not all rainbows. It is very very dark practice and industry.