I want to be taken serious. I want to be in love. I want romance. I no longer have space for flings, situations, and random bodies. That never appealed to me, especially not as I’m getting older.
I think men are becoming too content with being useless. You guys literally Can’t fix shit, can’t build, don’t pay for shit , struggling to plan dates . Like what are you really here for??
Most of you should just remain unmarried. Stay single, keep all your money to yourself, do whatever you want with yourself, and live your life alone.
Leave those who understand that marriage is a partnership to get married. It is not by force. It is not compulsory.
Randomly remembered one time I was scammed on instagram. Before I paid, I asked the vendor ‘please hope you will deliver’ and the person replied with ‘don’t worry, you will testify’😭😭😭
This girl on Tiktok said “if God puts me in your life, it's to love and heal you because God knows that's all I know how to do with good intentions and never half love you.” I felt that wholeheartedly.
While Ruth was busy becoming the woman that God called her to be, Boaz was busy becoming the man who would cover her.
God’s timing connects prepared hearts.
Just because you regret it doesn’t mean others will. I get it…sometimes it can look like someone is forcing it, but that’s not always the case.
In the first few months of my relationship, I was always the one calling my girl every morning. She wasn’t matching that energy at first, so I had a conversation with her and told her there’s nothing wrong with her calling first sometimes. She understood and adjusted.
Fast forward a few months later, I started a night job (9pm–4am), so calling in the morning became difficult. I’d sleep around 4am and wake up by 12pm. Thankfully, she understood the situation and started calling me first consistently. At some point, I even tried staying up till 5/6am just so I could still call her, so it wouldn’t feel one-sided.
What made it work for us is simple…understanding, communication, and effort from both sides. It’s not about who texts or calls first, it’s about two people willing to meet each other halfway and make things work.