One of my biggest regrets as a man is how much of myself I lost trying to be loved. My money, my mental health, my peace. I spent so much time proving I was a good man that I forgot to ask if I was being treated like a good man. That realization hurts more than the breakup itself. Men, don’t lose yourself trying to be enough for somebody.
Deactivating social media made me realise just how invisible I can be to people. No one calls. No one texts to check on me. No one seems to notice that I’ve gone quiet or wonder where I’ve been. It’s as if the moment I stopped showing up on their screens, I slowly stopped existing in their minds too. And there’s something deeply painful about realising how many connections seem to depend on your online presence. You can spend so much time interacting with people, watching their lives, keeping up with their updates and assuming you’re part of each other’s worlds, only to step away and realise how little effort some people make to maintain that connection outside of social media. It makes you wonder how many people genuinely think about you when you’re not constantly reminding them that you exist. How many would reach out simply because they miss you, want to hear your voice or care enough to ask how you’ve been. I know people get busy and silence doesn’t always mean someone doesn’t care. But it still hurts when you realise that if you stopped making yourself visible, you might stop hearing from people altogether. Disappearing from social media teaches you who remembers you when there’s nothing on their screen reminding them that you exist.
If life has not yet taken you to the point where you ask yourself "What is the essence of life?" you have not yet been through it.
And if you break through that stage and come out strong, you triumph in life. Nothing scares you anymore because it is all just, part of life.
financial struggles will teach you how to disappear without explaining yourself. sometimes you're not avoiding people because you don't love them anymore; you're just tired of being around when you can't afford to participate in the life everyone else is enjoying
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