no one talks about when u gain the wisdom from discipline, u also gain self control & everything changes.
then u have the ability to see that a lot of ppl deal w discipline & control issues.
u no longer have the tolerance for reckless behavior in your life.
dating changes. u only can create connections w ppl when u see effort, intention, communication skills, emotional intelligence, independence & consideration.
friendships change. u only can surround yourself w ppl who don’t just complain about circumstances, but actively put in effort to change, good communication skills, empathy, intention, independence & consideration.
u change. going out isn’t as fun as it used to be if there isn’t intention. u can’t settle for less anymore. ur whole lifestyle shifts.