things I've learned don't mean anything:
-sleeping together
-meeting their family
-no protection
-talking about the future
- calling for hours
-"I love you"
Trust me. Wanita zaman skrg tak suka hidup susah. Nak cari yang boleh susah senang bersama. 1 dalam sejuta. Bukti, peratus orang bercerai sebab kewangan lebih dari 35%. Dan menjadi faktor terbesar sbb cerai. So, for me la… nak cari pasangan. Kena cari yang sama2 memahami.
@na_hadf dengar "happy wife happy life" ni bagi aku sedikit icky. as if a man don't deserve their own life and happiness. it further perpetuates the idea that a man simply live for others 😅. but if a man were to complain about it then they'd say why you go and marry then just be single.
Lepasni kalau kau naik gaji, jangan sesekali bagi tahu bini kau. Orang jenis tak bersyukur ni akan sentiasa rasa tak cukup. Dia cakap 500 tak cukup sbb dia tahu kau gaji besar, dia dh siap buat kira2 dlm otak dia hahsh
500 tu nanti dia buat simpan je, tpi kalau pergi makan, makeup, skincare, cod parcel dia akan guna duit kau jugak.
Entitle sungguh. Kalau duit dia tahu pulak tamak, suami tak ada “hak” katanya. Tapi kalau duit suami, kalau boleh nk kikis kaw kaw
Kalau kau tak nak bagi duit pulak, nanti dia akan buat ayat sedih guiltrip kau, cakap “happy wife happy life”, so hati-hati la
You deserve to enjoy your hardworking money too.
When I say modern-day dating has become miserable and is more of a humiliation ritual than love, this is what I mean.
Look at her texts and the misery in her life. she tried to put in her best effort and wanted to talk to him, but instead, she became meme material on the internet because he wanted some likes and validation.
If you have never been an abuser before, having a women will make you become one.
They talk too much.
Ungrateful
Selfish
Never content.
Restless beings
Emotionally unstable
Anxious
Always want to talk about their problems.
Illogical
Hate accountability
Lack self awareness
Perfectionists.
Narcissistic.
Stubborn
Delusional.
They are all born with these traits. All of them. Marriage lasted longer because men chose to be the bigger person.
This is why the shift to everyone hating each other has been so hard for millennials.
Many of us went to diverse schools where everyone basically got along. Sure, jokes were made & bad people existed, but there was a general code of respect.
Social media + rage bait ruined that
The hardest pill for women to swallow is that average men love us far more unconditionally than we love them. A regular guy making a standard wage will gladly date a woman with zero income, pay for her meals, and support her dreams without ever making her feel inadequate. But the exact second an average-earning man loses his job or hits a financial rough patch, a massive percentage of women instantly lose respect and look for an exit. We demand unconditional loyalty, but only offer conditional love.
According to psychology
Avoidants don't actually fear relationships, they fear dependency. The moment they realize you truly matter, that your mood can influence theirs and that losing you would genuinely hurt, it starts to feel like a threat to their independence. And when independence feels threatened, their instinct is to pull away.