as a grown up, i've realized you don't want to be crazy in love. you want someone who gives you peace of mind, reassurance, and consistency not constant anxiety and little heart attacks
Hey beautiful girl. ❤️
Never let the world make you feel like your modesty, your values, or your deen are something to outgrow. In a generation chasing validation, staying true to Allah is the greatest success.
What people call “boring” may be the very thing protecting your peace. Keep your crown on. You’re winning in this life and, by Allah’s mercy, the next. 🌸
the sexiest thing a man can do is learn you. not just love you, but understand you,know how to show up for you, recognize your silence, remember the little things, and make you feel seen. It's never about grand gestures; it's about being intentional in the ways that matter most
You never forget how someone supports or makes you feel during pregnancy, postpartum, miscarriage/childloss, loss of a parent/sibling, grief in general. It stays with you and changes the way you see that person for life.
Ya Allah,
You know the pain I never speak about, the thoughts I keep to myself, and the battles I fight quietly every day.
Ya Lateef, replace my worries with tawakkul, my sadness with peace, and my distance from You with closeness to You.
Sometimes I don’t even know what’s happening in my life. Life keeps teaching me lessons I never asked for, giving me experiences I never wished to have. Yes, they made me stronger but honestly, I never wanted to become this strong. I just wanted a simple, happy heart.
Be a good woman.
Be an honest woman.
Have standards.
Have haya.
Educate yourself.
Take care of yourself.
Eat well.
Protect your peace.
Guard your salah.
Trust Allah ﷻ.
Have pure intention.
Let's Allah ﷻ handle the rest!!
a man who loves you, will naturally wanna feed you, take you out, call, text you,buy you flowers & treat you like a priorty. ıf he's not doing those thing then he doesn't care about you. believe me, a man will always act right for a girl he really wants !!
going through a phase rn , i think i’ve finally came in terms w letting a lot of stuff go . including , feelings , ppl , fears , just everything . it’s time for new beginnings , new chapters that brings happiness , love & endless memories . it’s time to move on w life . 🤎"
never force relationships or communication. if it's not mutual, then let it go. people know exactly what they're doing. if they wanted to match your energy, they would. start rewarding inconsistency with unavailability. allow them to lose you because of their lack of effort
If you're a woman, don't forget to make du'a for your health, your body carries more than people see.
Ask Allah to protect you, strengthen you, and grant you well-being in every way.
Here are some du'as you can include in your du'as:
“Get married with the purpose of getting closer to Allah and In sha Allah it will be a blessed marriage. Marry someone who will encourage you, elevate your Imaan, be a great model for your children and most importantly, bring you closer to Allah.”
If someone asks me, “what kind of man I want?”
I won’t say tall, rich, handsome or perfect. I’ll say a man who protects my feelings, who never makes me question my worth. Someone who doesn’t use silence as a weapon, who never becomes the reason for my tears. A man who listens, even when my voice shakes, who chooses me on the hardest days, who stays gentle when life isn’t. Someone who holds my heart as if it’s fragile, who shows up, who tries, who truly cares. That’s it. That’s all I want. Someone kind. Someone steady. Someone who feels like home.
Allah will send the right person in to your life at the right time and you will forget all the pain from those who you falsely believed to be right. Never worry when your heart is pure. Allah will compensate you with someone equal to the purity of your heart.
I don’t cut people off just for fun. I give chances, I communicate, I try. So if I go quiet on you… just know I already did my part. I’m not repeating myself.