Actually, they’ll remember everything. From the extravagant wedding to the failed marriage. But that’s fine, relationships end, marriages “fail” , there should be no shame or stigma attached to these things. “Failed” marriage > unhappy/pretentious/broken marriage.
Jhene said “I used to think I was introverted because I really liked being alone but it turns out that I just like my peace, and I am very extroverted around people who bring me peace.” and I felt every word.