people who lack accountability always say “you could’ve just talked to me.” no i couldn’t. you don’t listen, you deflect, and you twist everything until i’m the one apologizing
if u offer me a sincere apology & change ur behavior, I'll never bring up our past issues again. But if no apology was given and ur still repeating mistakes, u can't ask me to stop mentioning the past. The "past" is actually the present if u haven't changed.