That is why you should only have sex when YOU want to.
Remain a virgin because YOU want to, not because you want to give your virginity to your husband as a "gift".
My POV might be wicked, but I need women to detach themselves from mad men like this. He’s using the child, right? Just drop the child with him, it’s his child too. That handles the fear of how he treats the child. Facing all these abuses because you have a child together messes with the child’s mental health. For peace’s sake, since he’s constantly getting to you through the child because he knows you’re attached to the child, give him the child, let him take sole responsibility. In the future, you can plead with the child, that’s the same card men play. Choose yourself first when life gives you an unfortunate man. I can’t emphasize the importance of family enough, you can’t be doing this to a woman close to me and not have your bones broken by another man.
The fact that sperm can survive inside a woman’s body for up to five days just waiting for an egg to drop so it can get you pregnant… men are actually evil. 😭
He hit her with a viper so she filed a report with the police. He didn’t like that, clearly. He thought that was an overreaction because he was doing her a favour by doing household chores. And men are crying about this man’s plight? He was an abuser. He abused her when he was alive and he abused her in death.
If your significant other doesn’t like onions, you blend it into the food. Meet yourselves in the middle.
If your S/O doesn’t like sleeping with light on? The middle ground is usually that you should get an eye mask.
If you’re clingy and they aren’t? You cling a little less, they lean in a little more. That’s usually where the middle is found.
If you love PDA and they don’t? Dial it down a little, they dial it up a little. Meet yourselves in the middle.
Life isn’t hard, date considerate people that actually like you.
My man is a civil engineer, and I am also a civil engineer. However, he said we both can’t go into fieldwork, even though he knows that’s where the money lies in our profession. He said he’d open a big business for me to manage. I can’t explain how I feel.