As a man let me say it plain. Most men ain't sitting there thinking how they can play with good love. They panic when it land in they lap. You bring peace to his house and he start picking fights, going cold, blaming stress, blaming work, blaming timing, anything but himself. He ain't scared you love him. He scared love gonna ask him to become a man he never had to be before. So instead of growing into it, he burns it down and call it bad timing.
This is the first generation of women who aren't required to get married to survive. The first time in history women aren't slaves to men. So yes feminism is serious.
Ignoring the red flags is detrimental to every aspect of life. They rarely ever go green. People are who they are. As time goes on they just become more of who they are.
Ignoring your woman’s needs and still expecting a healthy relationship is like skipping maintenance on your car and expecting it to run forever. Sooner or later, it breaks down.