Some people don’t see a problem with their partner being friendly with others — until the situation is reversed. 📷
It’s easy to call something “harmless” when you’re the one doing it.
But when your partner receives the same attention, suddenly the boundaries become obvious. 📷
If a boundary matters when it happens to you, it should matter when you cross it too.
Relationships need mutual respect, consistency, and the same standards for both people. 📷📷
If he wanted to, he would.”
Sometimes, girl, it’s not that simple.
Effort is easier when there’s mutual respect, appreciation, communication, and consistency. 📷
A healthy relationship isn’t about one person constantly proving what they’ll do.
Both people should give each other reasons to show up. 📷
Don’t just ask what someone is willing to do for you.
Ask yourself: What are you bringing to the relationship too? 📷
Do you know to some extent, every man is a bad boy?
Bring your chair closer, listen.
If you ever had a girl that loved you, she liked you but you didn't give a damn about her...
Yet she kept running after you. You tell her shits raw yet she stays, you push her harder yet she cries and hangs around.
You call her only when you h0rny, run your rod and send her back home.
You snub her, yet she still reaches out... etc.
Broh! You were simply playing "the bad guy" unknowingly.
I tell you for free, that girl has more than 5 men chasing her for a very serious relationship.
Let's flip the tables...
Immediately this same you meets a woman you like and emotions take over you, unintentionally:
- You would want to chase,
- You would want to please her,
- You would want to take things too seriously,
- You would want to pamper and care overly.
The sad news is... you've now become a nice guy and there's a guy doing the same thing you did to Lady A that you never liked with this girl you've suddenly become nice to.
Conclusively, no matter how you like a girl, always reactivate your bad boy vibes:
- Not being too available,
- Not showing emotions overly,
- Not over pampering,
- Not doing everything she wants etc...
You will roll with them better.
No vvoman's inbox is empty.
If she's not chatting with you, she's chatting with Charly.
So when she punishes you with withdrawing of her attention, she doesn't stay dry all alone...
She get stuck with another dude all night chatting...
She's online, she's replying other dudes..
You feel neglected,
avoided,
and alas somehow depressed because your supposed queen isn't replying your text as usual because you gat "no option."
That's also because you are already emotionally attached to her. ...
A vvoman who was once chatty and super proactive in your inbox has now gone cold?
Allow her to be.
No questions..
No begging,
No buying her data to reply your chats..
Find another vvoman to keep you company or get more focused on your hustle...
Have options..
A Man with options doesn't tolerate a vvoman's drama and madness.
And when she's back.... make her to chase you. You ain't some pick and drop shit desperately waiting for a picker.
The downfall of great men rarely comes from war, money, or politics....
it comes from women. A man can survive hunger, exile, betrayal, and even death threats, but very few survive the destruction that comes from trusting a woman too much.
Learn or perish
This girl is the most f00lish girl I have ever seen.
You are bragging of collecting Ned's property. I fully know she can't do it because she was married traditionally. (She didn't get shi shi from Ned)
But she has just poured out her potential intentions to upcoming suitors.
I bet no rich, I repeat no rich sensible guy will ever ask her hand in marriage.
She's just chasing clout and the same time destróying her future.
Adding the fact that she's a single mother, piped by an old man older than his grandfather.
This Manchester City defender saw his career come to an abrupt halt in 2021 when he was suspended after being charged with multiple counts of sexual assault. Though acquitted of all charges in a 2023 retrial, the years lost to legal battles effectively ended his top-tier momentum and he was forced to sue the club for unpaid wages.
always be vigilant when dealing with vvomen, because they can strike you at any moment...
brightest future are on the mud because of women...
Learn or perish
"Why do rich and famous people get stuff for free?"
These people get stuff for free because they are valuable. They have much influence on the poor too. The poor look up to them, the poor follow them closely seeing a life they want for themselves, and with that influence, anything gotten for free and shown to the public will be wanted by the poor so as to feel rich too.
The people giving them for free gain more from that influence, that’s value.
They’re not just getting things for free, they are giving value in return.
A man will challenge even his own family and friends to be with a woman he loves
But a woman will leave her man because of the influence of family, friends or society
There are only 3 types of men:
- Ugly and sleeps around: has to be rich
- Ugly and broke: has to be loyal
- Sleeps around and broke: has to be handsome
There’ll always be somebody that earns more money than the other in a relationship & these days, that’s very likely to be the woman. This is a harsh reality that couples must accept. The man must learn to accept it over his ego. And the woman must learn to accept it without disrespecting the man.
If you help a woman when she's in trouble, she will remember you when she's in trouble again. Machiavelli understood something about human nature that most refuse to accept. He taught that loyalty is transactional, not sentimental. Your kindness becomes a resource in her mind, not a connection to her heart. When you helped her the first time, you didn't become a person. You became a solution. In the economy of emotions, you just moved from human being to emergency contact. She doesn't call you because she values you. She calls you because you work. Every time your phone rings with her name on it, That's not friendship calling. That's your utility being activated. You think you're building a relationship. You're just building a reputation as the person who fixes problems. Because the most painful realization isn't that she only calls in trouble. It's that you are never more than a tool in her survival kit.