Mese

Author, Creative Mama & Veteran. Transforming my thoughts into ink.

[Sophia🧚🏽‍♀️💞 @sophia_bambe]

Sticking to no contact really helps your self confidence. You realize there isn’t a single person you can’t live without. You had a life before they existed in it, and you’ll have one after they’re gone. Their importance was only informed by your attention.

[billy chapata. @iambrillyant]

allow what is removing itself from you to gently exit, without chasing it down the road, without offering discounts on your worth to make it stay. what is meant for you will never need convincing and what is aligned with you will never make you audition for a place you already deserved.

[Andreína @honeydiosaa]

If he’s still at war with his own life, he can’t build one with you. No matter how much you believe in him.

[ً @artfuIchaos]

there is power in knowing “i can be loved better than this”, even if your only reference is the love you have for yourself.

[Kate😶‍🌫️ @katehqs]

I think one of the most heartfelt experiences in life is discovering that someone genuinely enjoys your presence. Not what you provide, Not your accomplishments. Just you, your thoughts, your energy, your existence.

[L E S E D I @_Hybreed_]

What a privilege to be able to see, hear, breathe, walk & talk.

[𝘀𝗵𝗮𝗺𝗺𝘆💗 @Urfv_shammy]

i handle no contact very well im not reaching out talking to nobody who don't talk to me.

[ً @artfuIchaos]

never regret the love you give. it returns to you in another time, in another person, in other circumstances. but it will always come back to you.

[TASJÉ @TASJEJ]

never help a man when he’s down and never try to outdo him with gifts. Trust

[ً @artfuIchaos]

don’t let your empathy rob people of experiencing the consequences of their actions.

[Jaliyah @lifeof_jaliyah]

It really do be light at the end of every tunnel. Idk who needs to hear this but don’t give up❤️

[Your Emotional Healing Coach @AfsaRosette]

Date ppl who are gentle with you bc love is ethical before it is emotional. That part gets skipped a lot. Attraction & chemistry can be loud but even trauma has chemistry too.

[billy chapata. @iambrillyant]

july, cleanse my intentions in light. remove anything that blocks me from seeing myself, the layers i’ve outgrown, the noise i’ve mistaken for direction and the versions of me that were only meant to be temporary. make room for the parts of me that don’t need permission to exist.

[g @34rths]

And for my next trick I will call life beautiful and instantly watch it become so

[The woman @Tarmeim]

My favorite form of intimacy has always been asking questions, not to pry, but to understand the architecture of someone's inner world. The way they think. The way they feel. The way their past still echoes in their present. There's a depth in people that never shows unless someone asks the kind of questions that require honesty instead of performance.

[feyisayo 💸 @feyiszn]

there is absolutely no universe where the person who dysregulates ur nervous system is the love of your life

[WALKER🪂 @maxl1am]

how i sleep at night knowing I don’t have to write a lengthy message to an emotionally unavailable person asking for them to do better

[blue @bluewmist]

I JUST HEARD SOMEONE SAY
"MAYBE YOU DON'T NEED MORE TIME TO HEAL, MAYBE YOU NEED MORE EXPERIENCES THAT SHOW YOUR NERVOUS SYSTEM A DIFFERENT REALTY"

AND, YEAH.

[Arky @arkcarlly]

Hugs to everyone who is still trying to be an open-hearted and kind person even while having to process lots of heavy things.