Get you some people in your life who hold you down the way you hold everyone else down. And until you find those people, stop holding anyone down who wouldn’t do the same for you.
Dudes wait waaay too long to get they shit together, but then wonder why their girl don’t “appreciate” the transformation. It’s because you burned out the best of her in the beginning. Even if you really have changed & she forgave you, she ain’t the same no more fam.
Sometimes people aren't jealous of your money or looks. Sometimes it's your energy they're envious of which is why they'll bring you drama and negativity hoping to rob you of your positivity.