Inevitable consequence of people believing the “You can’t provoke someone and then tell them how to react” nonsense. She’ll learn the hard way that there is such a thing as an extremely disproportionate response to provocation. Someone steals your sugar and you try to take their life? Okay.
I find it weird that people will see a homeless person with a dog and think “we have to help the dog” while helping the homeless person doesn’t even cross they minds.
Just keep pivoting till you find where you want to be. many people rush life. They throw themselves into a specific box, then stay there. Motion is the privilege that the living have. Be many things at the same time. Or be nothing, for a time. Simmer in life, marinate, grow.
Your parents should watch your kids. You should help your parents in their old age. Check in on your brother. Go to your friend’s show. Watch your girlfriend’s cat. We’re “you don’t owe anyone anything”-ing ourselves into complete isolation.