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[Mide❤️ @Midestylist]

I’ve realized I don’t really know how to hate people. I only dislike them for a while, then I let it pass. Maybe it’s not kindness, maybe it’s just that hate feels like a heavy burden. It demands too much of the heart, and it still hurts in the end.

[Kunle Kenny -The Joy Dispenser @kunle_kenny]

This is their 41st night as victims of terrorists! Little children!!! 41 Nights!!!
God!! God!! Innocent children, toddlers! Teachers! Parents! Ah!!! 😭😭😭.
Eleda, ma sun o🤲🏻😭. Olorun iye, s’aanu won! Ah!!! 😭😭😭

[Mide❤️ @Midestylist]

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[ShopwithNira @Oazeezateniola]

Lmao you people talk as if you don’t grew up in the trenches. Remarrying a deadbeat is even common not to talk of a man that has money. Deadbeats are marrying everyday even poor men are marrying and having 2 or more wives. What had this got to do with money ?

[Ebelechukwu @_ebelechukwu]

The trigger has been removed.
The person causing the stress has left their lives. This reduces cortisol and it’s easier for her to stop stress eating amongst other things.
You people underestimate the effect a ‘bad’ partner can have on a person.

[Mide❤️ @Midestylist]

God please😭😭😭

[jagunlabi⚔️ @Aaliyah_Lillli]

“i wanted to go visit my family and he said i shouldn’t go. i started crying , he no even send me o🤣. when he later came in , he just said ‘i’ve sent you money to make stew for tonight o’. he then rubbed my head. i sha vex make the food.
oga chop dinner still chop me 😋😋🤣❤️”

[CHI$OM (Hates APC)✨ @_chiceeeyyy]

When will women understand that in a polygamous marriage the man loves only himself?

[Akin Abolade @mrlilgaga_]

Racheal was Diagnosed with Lupus in 2024 which damaged her kidney and now , for her to live , she need a KIDNEY TRANSPLANT. This is a fight Ray didn’t choose but she cry’s for another chance in life .

HELP SAVE RACHEAL 💔🙏🏾

2075178707 UBA ABOLADE
(OFFICIAL DONATION ACCOUNT)

[Mide❤️ @Midestylist]

So it is true?😭😭😭

[Ameerah👑 @lilmeerahcute]

As the second wife You came out publicly defending a man, saying he’d been through a lot with his ex wife funniest part is that you kept talking like an eyewitness 🤦🏾‍♀️ only for him to remarry her and leave you looking like a whole PR team that wasn’t informed

Allah ya kara😂

[Mide❤️ @Midestylist]

😭😭😭😭

[DEDE! @minutesimal_]

As a lady, there’s a certain type of men that will approach you and you’ll immediately start questioning your entire appearance and you’ll just stand there wondering “did I bathe with the wrong soap today or is it my outfit??” because what kind of audacity is this?

[Oyíndà @yorubachic]

I searched PhD on your page and nothing came up so I can understand why women celebrating multiple degrees is painful for you.

“Anyone can get a degree" — except you 😂

[Aisha Hamman @AyshaHamman]

In 2018, while working as a community mobiliser on a sexual and reproductive health and rights project in Kano State, we regularly engaged women in rural communities. During one of those sessions, a woman said to us:

“Malama, don Allah, kamar yadda kuke tara mata kuna koya mana abubuwa, don Allah ku dinga tara mazajenmu kuna nuna musu muhimmancin zuwa asibiti da neman magani. Saboda sau da yawa za ki ga muna fama da infection ko sanyi. Idan mun je asibiti an ba mu magani, ana ce mana mu gaya wa mazajenmu su zo su karɓi magani, saboda idan mun warke su ba su warke ba, za su iya sake sa mana cutar. Amma mazajenmu sai su ƙi zuwa asibiti, su ce wai muna tona musu asiri. Wani ma zai iya sakin matarsa saboda ta gaya masa ya je asibiti. Ita kuma idan an sake ta, wani lokacin samun wani mijin yana zama da wahala, saboda ana cewa ba ta iya rufa wa mijinta asiri.”

In translation, she was saying:

“Please, just as you gather women and educate us, we would appreciate it if you also engaged our husbands and taught them the importance of going to the hospital and receiving treatment for sexually transmitted infections. Many times, we suffer from infections and, when we go to the hospital, we are treated and advised to bring our husbands for treatment too, because if we recover while they remain untreated, they may infect us again. But when we ask our husbands to go to the hospital, some become offended and accuse us of exposing their shame. In some cases, a man may even divorce his wife for asking him to seek treatment. A woman divorced under such circumstances may also struggle to remarry because she becomes stigmatised and accused of being unable to conceal her husband’s shame.”

This was in 2018, and in 2026, you are promoting the dangerous idea that a “good wife” is one who hears but pretends not to hear, sees but pretends not to see and remains silent regardless of what her husband does, all in the name of preserving the dignity of marriage.

Who raised you guys to think like this?

Since when did “matar rufin asiri” come to mean a woman who must ignore persistent betrayal, silence herself and protect a grown man from the consequences of his own choices? Do you not realise that protecting the privacy of a marriage is not the same as concealing misconduct or tolerating repeated infidelity or sacrificing one’s dignity, health and peace to preserve a man’s public image.

Islam does not normalise zina or present infidelity as an ordinary male weakness that women must tolerate. It, in contrast, treats sexual immorality as a grave offence. So what makes anyone think it is acceptable to normalise cheating, or gaslight women into enabling wayward partners who behave as though infidelity is their birthright, and then condemn every woman who chooses to walk away because she cannot continue living with a man alleged to be a chronic womaniser?

Why should the responsibility for a man’s discipline, loyalty and sexual conduct be transferred to his wife? Why should she be praised for pretending not to see what threatens her emotional and physical well-being, while he is excused from accountability?

Please do not use this mindset to raise your daughters, whether you have them now or may have them in the future. This thinking is one of the reasons many women are suffering and dying in silence, are repeatedly infected with life-threatening sexually transmitted infections because they are taught that their chastity is synonymous with overlooking their husband’s inadequacies. You’re suggesting women should remain trapped in harmful marriages because society tells them that marriage is “for better or worse” and that a woman’s virtue is measured by how much humiliation, betrayal and danger she can endure without speaking.

A woman who truly loves you and wants the best for you in both worlds would never turn deaf ears or a blind eye to wrongdoing by pretending not to see it.

Ka je ka nema ilimi.

[Mide❤️ @Midestylist]

@M_zekks Thank youuu❤️

[Mide❤️ @Midestylist]

I can’t dance to save a soul mehn😂😂

[Mide❤️ @Midestylist]

@iamdonluqman Rich man🌚

[ᴅᴀ ʟᴀɢᴏsʙᴏʏ @Shola_dlb]

Please retweet 🙏🏾

Nothing is too small guys.. let’s save Munachi’s life🙏🏾

[Ibrahim Suleiman @edomaloybwg]

4 weeks later, the children kidnapped in Oyo are still not back home.

This country is just one long-running series of heartbreaks

[Petite✨ @celeste_unusual]

Educated Hausa women accent

[Aisha is wealthy| I said what I said! @Opulent_Maisha]

Until a man get pregnant and carries a child in his womb for 9 months, men's contribution about how women should look during pregnancy holds no weight.

[Mide❤️ @Midestylist]

Hi👋🏻

[AanuWithTheDoubleAa(AWTDAa) @_aanuade]

And it’s a wrap
Class of ‘26💜

AANUADE WAS HERE💜

[Oluwatimileyin✨🦋 @Timmysofine]

If we apologized to children more, we would have more adults that accept accountability for their actions.