My man said something to me that really stuck.
He told me, “I’m not here to control you. I’m not your dad, I’m your partner. You’re free to make your own choices. Just understand that every choice has consequences. If you choose something that damages what we’ve built, that’s on you.”
He said, “I’ll always tell you when something hurts me or crosses a boundary, because that’s what healthy communication looks like. But if you keep stepping over the line after I’ve shown you where it is, then you were never really protecting us to begin with.”
And honestly, that’s what accountability in a relationship sounds like.
Se salió desde las 5 am, se viajó durante 2:30 horas, se visitó el centro, se compraron boletos para el béisbol, se hizo tiempo de las 11 am a las 7pm. Se disfrutó de un buen juego y otras 2:30 de regreso. Agotador pero fue un buen día.