I believed that if I loved hard enough people would eventually choose accountability over excuses.
I was WRONG.
The moment I stopped accepting manipulation, stopped explaining myself, and started choosing peace, everything changed. I became impossible to control.
#MikeLamar
Modern dating has created a strange situation for men.
A man is told to approach, but not be too forward. Pay, but don't think she's entitled. Lead, but don't be controlling. Be confident, but don't intimidate her. Be vulnerable, but don't become emotionally dependent. Have standards, but don't be demanding.
Then people wonder why so many men are choosing silence and distance.
You can't keep giving someone a rulebook where every move has a contradictory interpretation and then blame them for eventually deciding the safest move is not to play.
Most men did not lose interest in relationships.
They lost interest in constantly being evaluated.
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