Kingmaker

Build your mind like a king |
Discipline | Self-control | Mental strength

[Kingmaker @MindHealthMaker]

Sometimes you're the villain in their story simply because you wouldn't let them treat you the way they've treated everyone else. You didn't comply, so they had to vilify

[Feelings 🍃 @itsmyfeelingss_]

Happy 44th Birthday, Anne Hathaway! 22 then, 44 now. How is she still looking this stunning? Some people just refuse to age!

[Kingmaker @MindHealthMaker]

Sometimes you're the villain in their story simply because you wouldn't let them treat you the way they've treated everyone else. You didn't comply, so they had to vilify

[Kingmaker @MindHealthMaker]

Empaths and narcissists have the same core wound. The empath copes by increasing their sensitivity to take on the emotions of others. The narcissist copes by decreasing their sensitivity to shut out the emotions of others

[Kingmaker @MindHealthMaker]

@tek_sidhu Absolutely true. Some bonds don't need constant attention. One conversation is enough to make it feel like yesterday.

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@Manimegalaiofcl Four decades later, and that charm is still impossible to ignore

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@AditiRajasthan Less noise, fewer fake connections, more meaningful relationships. That's what growth looks like.

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@renu_offcl @grok There's a difference between having cosmetic surgery and assuming every outfit is designed to hide scars. What's the evidence behind this claim? @grok

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@tosin_olarewaju The real betrayal isn't always what happens during a disagreement. It's discovering how someone uses the trust you gave them when things go wrong.

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@tosin_olarewaju And that's when they start painting you as the problem rather than reflecting on how they treated you

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Sometimes you're the villain in their story simply because you wouldn't let them treat you the way they've treated everyone else. You didn't comply, so they had to vilify

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@keshvibezTV Policies should never matter more than people. A grandmother who raised you is a parent in every way that counts. No company should need proof of that bond.

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@empress_md The silence after asking for an itemized bill says it all. Never feel guilty for asking where your money went.

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@WaleedMastery You can't build self-respect around keeping everyone happy. Sometimes you have to stand firm, even when they don't like it

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@WaleedMastery Make consistency easier by making excuses harder. Sometimes the best motivation is simply having everything ready

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CAN WE TALK ABOUT THE WITHDRAWAL SYMPTOMS THAT OCCUR WHEN YOU STOP TALKING TO A PERSON YOU USED TO TALK TO EVERY DAY???

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@TejaswiPalam Have a good day ahead

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@Jasonhan110 Your past isn't wasted time. It's part of the story that made you stronger, wiser, and more human.

[Feelings 🍃 @itsmyfeelingss_]

My wife sat across from me last night while I cried, and for once, she didn't try to make me feel better.

Me: "You're really not going to say anything?"

Wife: "I'm waiting."

Me: "Waiting for what?"

Wife: "For you to answer what I asked."

Me: "You can see I'm upset, right?"

Wife: "I can."

Me: "And you're just going to ignore that?"

Wife: "I'm not ignoring you. I'm trying to finish a conversation we've been having for three weeks."

Me: "Wow. So this is more important than how I feel?"

Wife: "That's not what I said."

Me: "You don't even care that I'm crying."

Wife: "I cared when I asked you why you cancelled our anniversary dinner to go out with your friends."

Me: "They needed me."

Wife: "And you didn't think your wife needed you that evening?"

I looked away.

Wife: "Then I asked why you kept telling your mother about our arguments."

Me: "She's my mother. I can talk to her."

Wife: "Of course you can. But why does she know every private detail of our marriage before we've even resolved it?"

Me: "You're making me feel like I'm a terrible husband."

Wife: "I'm telling you something you did hurt me."

Me: "You always make everything my fault."

Wife: "Last week, I asked why you deleted those messages from your colleague."

Me: "They were nothing."

Wife: "Then why delete them?"

Me: "Because I knew you'd react like this."

Wife: "And now we're discussing my reaction instead of the messages."

I started getting emotional again.

Me: "I can't believe you're treating me like this."

She looked at me for a moment and said something I wasn't prepared to hear.

Wife: "Do you realise what happens every time I ask you to take responsibility?"

[Kingmaker @MindHealthMaker]

@IfyG_ifeanyi That's an important distinction. The empath needs boundaries, while the narcissist needs self-awareness and genuine accountability

[Kingmaker @MindHealthMaker]

Empaths and narcissists have the same core wound. The empath copes by increasing their sensitivity to take on the emotions of others. The narcissist copes by decreasing their sensitivity to shut out the emotions of others

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Being disliked by people with ugly spirits is divine protection

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@iGreenGod Imagine being Usher and realizing your toughest audience doesn't even know your biggest hits