Mirabel Utibe

💕 Sharing real-life lessons on self-worth, healthy love & better communication.
💕 Helping you attract, keep & grow real love.

[Mirabel Utibe @MirabelEdet]

🔥 "The More He Talks About 'Wife Material,' The More I Pay Attention!" 🔥

I don't know why I get uncomfortable whenever I hear some men talking too much about looking for a "wife material."

Maybe it's because I've noticed a pattern. Some of the people I've heard use that phrase the most are not exactly examples of good character themselves.

Ladies, whenever someone introduces a man to you and says, "He's a good man, he's looking for a wife," don't let excitement make the decision for you.

Don't rely solely on recommendations. Take your time and get close enough to observe him for yourself.

A good reputation borrowed from other people is not the same as good character.

Study his attitude, how he treats people, how he handles disagreements, and how he speaks about others.

Not every man looking for a wife is bad, but not every recommendation should be accepted without careful observation either.

Sometimes, the person you're being warned about isn't the one everyone is talking about—it's the one nobody is paying attention to.

My sisters, don't rush. Look closely. Character always reveals itself with time.

[Mirabel Utibe @MirabelEdet]

@Jenna69302316 Best wishes sis. Have a beautiful day

[Mirabel Utibe @MirabelEdet]

@Jenna69302316 You have to confirm it dear

[Mirabel Utibe @MirabelEdet]

🔥 "The More He Talks About 'Wife Material,' The More I Pay Attention!" 🔥

I don't know why I get uncomfortable whenever I hear some men talking too much about looking for a "wife material."

Maybe it's because I've noticed a pattern. Some of the people I've heard use that phrase the most are not exactly examples of good character themselves.

Ladies, whenever someone introduces a man to you and says, "He's a good man, he's looking for a wife," don't let excitement make the decision for you.

Don't rely solely on recommendations. Take your time and get close enough to observe him for yourself.

A good reputation borrowed from other people is not the same as good character.

Study his attitude, how he treats people, how he handles disagreements, and how he speaks about others.

Not every man looking for a wife is bad, but not every recommendation should be accepted without careful observation either.

Sometimes, the person you're being warned about isn't the one everyone is talking about—it's the one nobody is paying attention to.

My sisters, don't rush. Look closely. Character always reveals itself with time.

[Mirabel Utibe @MirabelEdet]

@AliceMwani71811 Good morning princess

[Mirabel Utibe @MirabelEdet]

@barllymarma Bring it closer, let me check something 🥰

[Mirabel Utibe @MirabelEdet]

@Boss_Bee_ Good morning to you. Have a beautiful day

[Boss Baby 🌚🌝 @Boss_Bee_]

Awake and already tired 🥱

[Melanin Queen👑🌹 @onlyone_success]

These women will tell you that body count doesn't matter because the past doesn't matter. Tell those same ladies to hold on to the same energy when they find a man who was physically abusive to his last 15 girlfriends....

Go ahead and date him darling... The past doesn't matter.

[Mirabel Utibe @MirabelEdet]

@JoyfulCl Looking stunning like never before

[The Heart Speaks ⋆⭒˚.⋆🪐 ⋆⭒˚.⋆ @SGabardi1111]

If you’re not proud to have her, what’s the point?

[Mirabel Utibe @MirabelEdet]

@maxnonso The first look could be cool

[Mirabel Utibe @MirabelEdet]

@Daisy55oj Happy belated birthday 🎂🍾🥂

[Mirabel Utibe @MirabelEdet]

@Daisy55oj Beautiful you

[Mirabel Utibe @MirabelEdet]

@Prince_dc21_ It's so sad. She should've given you a piece of her mind that she wouldn't love to have kids with you right from the onset. So sorry about that

[Prince Daniel Chukwuemeka @Prince_dc21_]

"This is my wife. All these came as a shock to me. I'm a man, but I'm in tears cuz of this woman.

I'm actually one of those who were lucky to enter America through Mexico some years back. Someone helped me fix my papers, & I've been working very hard, doing all sorts of odd jobs, just to make it. I didn't attend school much, so I work here as a cleaner in 4 different hotels both day & night shifts. The pay is good, & I've been here for a very long time.

I decided it was time to go back home & marry my long-term girlfriend, whom I had before I left for abroad. She & her parents were very excited. We did the traditional rites & had a white wedding; it was the talk of the town. Those moments were so very beautiful.

After our honeymoon, I left to start processing her papers, while she moved into one of my houses back home, & I put her in charge of collecting rent from my 6 houses. Those sums were very huge, i knew from there, she could support herself & her family. I also enrolled her in an ICT university to prepare her for easy employment abroad whenever she would get here, while I worked on her visa.

She did very well & graduated with good results. I was so happy with this development. Then, I became more active in making her papers, & just in time, her visa was finally out. Her flight was booked, & she arrived here on a Friday. I was once again excited. That day was my off day, and I spent all day with her. It was one of the happiest moments ever in our relationship.

I took her around, introducing her to friends & showing her places, etc. A few months later, with my connections, I helped her secure a very good job, with far better pay than mine. Since she is more educated than me. She even started making more money & more investments than me in just 11 months.

Well, to cut the long story short, it's been 2 years now. Only for me to realize that, This lady has been taking pills all along to avoid getting pregnant for me, I just found out that she's also been cheating on me with her colleague where she works. What hurts the most is that when I finally caught them, she didn't even act remorseful, instead, she's been asking for a divorce & that my assets be shared with her.

Celine, you now call me a poor dirty cleaner, meanwhile I've done nothing but love you & never for once have I cheated on you or raised my hand on you. I've always wanted the best for you Celine 😭😭 but now you make me cry like a baby. This is how I'm being paid back.

I never expected nor could have ever imagined something like this from you Celine, we started from way back & i came here & struggled to make things better for us two, neglecting my own family just to make sure we're settled & ok first😭 why betray me like this, why!😭. This came as a shock to me. I do not deserve this Celine i don't, why make me cry like this?💔😭."

[Sonia @BalogunSonia4]

Men settle where there is peace. But women can bring peace only if she is treated well. ❤️

[Mirabel Utibe @MirabelEdet]

@TheoEmeka2 Amen, same here bruh. Good morning

[Lovers’ Guide 💟 @guideforlovers]

A woman who loves you will beg you not to use c0ndoms with her

[Victoria Olamide👸😍❤️ @VikyInsights]

A person can love you and still be wrong for you.

Agree or disagree?

[Mirabel Utibe @MirabelEdet]

@VikyInsights I totally agree. Love may not be enough here, there are other factors involved when doing all-round assessments.

[Mirabel Utibe @MirabelEdet]

@AdeliaDineo Good morning to you