@AntiRapeGod@kittykareninas I don’t know what to tell you, i agree that is the ideal situation but a lot of woman still feel pressure/expectations from society and might not even realize that they are allowed to expect more
@AntiRapeGod@kittykareninas she didn’t say it’s his fault, she said it’s not the woman’s fault for feeling nervous to bring it up based on how some men respond. that doesn’t automatically mean it’s his fault
@AntiRapeGod@kittykareninas Because men not pleasing women has become so normalized that both men and women accept it, and a lot of men will get upset if you express it to them because their ego gets hurt