If you want sex, make it clear.
If you want a relationship, make it clear.
If you want somebody to talk too, make it clear.
If you want to just pass time, make it clear.
If you want someone's help just to move on, make it clear.
But DO NOT USE someone.
Forgive yourself for overextending your kindness, your generosity, your love & your soul to people that did not deserve it.
Forgive yourself for pouring out your whole heart to people that were not a vibrational match.
Come back home—to yourself.
Pay close attention to how you feel :
-when you are around a certain person
-when a certain person speaks to you
-when you look at the photo of a certain individual
-when you hear a voice of a certain person
-when you think of a certain person
-when you see a text of that person
It is possible to have sex with someone and your life goes down the drain and your whole world breaks down into pieces.
I'm not talking about "witchcraft" or "THE BOYZ namely otikoloshe" or Isichitho(spells to make you an unlikable and unpleasant person) .
Water is the most powerful element
Water is more powerful than umuthi because umuthi needs water to grow but water doesn't need umuthi to grow. Water has the power to destroy umuthi omdaka if blessed by someone onesipho samanzi.