november, fill my cup with love, let it overflow into my intentions. pour into the parts of me that i emptied while filling other places, water the roots that i stopped nurturing while breathing life into other spaces, may i find ways back to myself to give back to everyone else.
How your partner was loved as a child will show up in: how they react when hurt, how they communicate during conflict, and how they respond when you share your feelings.
Apologies won't heal you. Closure won't heal you. Validation won't heal you. Time won't heal you. Jumping from one relationship to another won't heal you. Eating, drinking, drugging, distracting, numbing, smoking, or fucking your pain away won't heal you. Only YOU will heal you.
Normalize loving some people from a distance. Normalize saying no without explaining yourself. Normalize forgiving some people without reconnecting with them. Normalize removing yourself from anything that irritates your soul, triggers your mental health, and lowers your vibe.