Csani

Memoirs of a Virgo ♥

[NOTYOURDOLLY @dollycuteass]

If every little misunderstanding means we gotta spend the next 2 weeks or longer acting weird, I’m good. I don’t have the patience for emotional punishment over shit that could’ve been talked about and handled.

[d @pinkkkkdiamonds]

rather be alone than deal with this at my grown age ever again

[ຸ @fvckfemi_]

someone said "if you don't let people experience the consequences of their actions towards u, you will remain a safe place for their worst behavior" and I couldn't agree more

[Bammy @YoushldfwBammy]

The disrespect at the end was so loud that the memories held no value.

[. @Omgemeraldddd]

girls.... pleaseeeee pick the gentle one. the kind one. the one who brings you peace. the protective one. the one who is sure of you. the one who respects you. the one who understands your silence.

[Csani @MissCsani]

Hello!

[yimika. @yimikaaaa]

I realized I really can't be at peace w anyone that invalidates my feelings. I don't want anyone to kiss my ass to satisfy my ego but if we can't mutually respect each other's feelings even when we don't understand them & apologize for offending the other, we won't thrive.

[Csani @MissCsani]

And some people just don’t get it.

[jonzing. @ehisssss]

you can't teach someone to be intentional about you.

there’s a level of intentionality that naturally comes when someone GENUINELY values you.

[gigi🫧 @gigi_sofly]

lack of consideration will kill whatever bond we have, I'm not reminding you to act like you care about me.

[BARBIE @bigheadbarbiee]

I despise a person who makes me feel like I’m crazy & whole time I’m dead ass right!

[Black Girl @t_sadiity]

My version of being spoiled ain’t about the money… it’s about how you treat me. How gentle you are, how you talk to me, how you cater to me, how you love me, protect me, and pour into me. Anybody can spend money. Not everybody knows how to make you feel loved. That’s the real luxury.

[tiffonii @Tiffoni__]

I hate being updated on people I don’t like. I do not care.

[ily @luhyoumf]

please don't come around me gossiping about others.

I DO NOT CARE.

[LLONER 🦅🪐 @eyojoel77]

Every time I spoke up about something that bothered me, I somehow ended up being the problem. Instead of hearing me out, everything turned into my reaction, my tone, or the fact that I even brought it up. That’s when I realized some people don’t want honesty, they want silence. They don’t mind doing things that affect you, they just don’t want to hear about it afterward. Once I saw that pattern, I stopped explaining myself and started keeping my distance.

[postydiary @postydiary]

People that love you, care about how they make you feel. The end.

[𝙤𝙡𝙞𝙫𝙚𝙧★ @olivvrszn]

crazy how peaceful life becomes when you decide you no longer have the energy to teach people how to appreciate you, respect you, respect your boundaries, treat you right, listen, communicate, resolve conflicts, honor agreements, be accountable, and have difficult conversations.

[a. @amhood__]

I really hate how a situation can get so weird, so fast.. all bc of poor communication.

[Csani @MissCsani]

Reminder: Believe people when they show you who they are the first time!

[Collins🦋 @collinstimbela_]

I need the girls to get DISGUSTED by a man never buying flowers, planning dates, building a bond, investing in & pouring love + effort into a good hearted woman that deserves it. GET DISGUSTED.

[Csani @MissCsani]

Inconsistency is a big turn off!

[Csani @MissCsani]

I want a really good Cajun chicken & shrimp pasta! That I don’t have to cook.

Why is it so hard to find a good restaurant that makes it in KC? 😩