if you look around at everything happening and your conclusion as to why people are becoming more radicalized is still some shit like “andrew tate” and “podcasters” you should be wearing a helmet 24/7
@fwxainthosis It’s actually because the scene turned into an awful race to the bottom where everyone made squeaky clean bubble punk without accounting for the fact that their audience of 12 year olds was eventually going to get older and crave punk that actually sounded like punk
@Ravarora1 Honestly just wondering where they find these men and how a dude like this got that far into a relationship. I know plenty of good men (and women) who get rejected for the most braindead reasons, and people like this dude are their competition. Weird
I remember when I was 14 and learning bass I was practicing some Primus song during music class- this kid took the bass from me and said “that’s not a real song” and he started playing smoke on the water.
most men have more trouble getting their foot in the door than holding onto someone after they do tho
it seems like the limiter for most is the initial shallow selection process rather than some long-term depth
@kafkaex Nah buddy dating apps as we know them are not a sustainable business and are on a steep decline by every metric. Hinge got a (temporary) boost in revenue recently because they added a height filter in order to get women to start paying for premium subscriptions.
@mc14_14@Rich_Cooper You might be in the minority though. I’ve had several women full blown FREAK OUT on me for having a body count of only 3 in my 30s…. Like they could not comprehend that I just had no interest in random hookups. Most men I know irl are very similar.
@kenzietuff There has never been an easier time in history to meet people and build relationships but so many of us are so absolutely COOKED. Dating based on criteria used to be seen as insane/immature/avoidant behavior. Now we *checks notes* celebrate it??