Let's be clear, a lot of women don't have "trust issues." They have "I've seen this pattern of behavior before, and I REFUSE to go through the same thing again" issues.
u know what's super attractive? when a man can CALMLY talk to u in times of disagreement. EVEN in spite of their frustration in the moment. not being a hot head & talking crazy, no character assassination, etc. just calmly & rationally responding with patience & diligence.
It is a man's job to set the tone in a relationship. Whether people want to admit it or not, a woman feeds off his energy.. his consistency, his intentions, his presence. She takes what he gives and reflects it. Believe it or not