one of the nicest feelings is to be with someone who genuinely likes you. not only romantically but as a person, they enjoy your company. they listen when you speak, notice your details. being around you feels easy. you never have to wonder if you’re welcome or being tolerated
you bloom where you are loved, and that is why you need to learn how to move on, to walk away from suffocating spaces where you can no longer stretch your limbs out. to live well, you have to learn how to leave.
และเพื่อนชีวิตชั้นเจอมิตรภาพรายทางตลอดชีวิต ชั้นเลยอินข้อความ “Everyone talks about their childhood friends but no one talks about about the best friend you found on your own in the middle of trying to figure out how to survive in the adult world” มากกกกกกกกก
I think one of the healthiest things I've learned is that you should let people reintroduce themselves to you, even your closest friends. Let them reintroduce their soul. Familiarity shouldn’t be a cage. Love them for who they are now, not just who they were then.
Nobody prepares you for the fact that you will go through some of the most heart shattering experiences of your life and are still expected to show up for work. Take care of yourself. Pay your bills. Meet your goals. Just carry on… it’s awful
‘there is love in the act of saying, “we did our best, let’s leave this here”, because love will always be honest. love is acknowledging that what we once had, cannot exist here, in this space, ever again. and we cannot resurrect it and fashion it into something else. it is done’
ngl I feel like everything that happened these last 6 months needed to happen. to allow me to see everybody ain’t for me, learning to set boundaries , learning to stop over sharing and over playing my part.