If you’re dating someone and you can’t comfortably tell them 'I don’t have money for this right now' without feeling ashamed, you are in the wrong relationship. 🤷♀️
Marriage will expose you. Your anger. Your ego. Your trauma. It is not your partner. It is you on loudspeaker.
When you live alone, you can hide your flaws. Nobody sees your temper. Nobody sees your selfish side. Nobody sees how you shut down when things get hard.
Marriage removes the cover.
The small habits become big issues. The way you talk when upset. The way you handle money. The way you deal with stress. Everything shows.
Many people say, “My spouse triggers me.” Sometimes that is true. But many times, marriage just reveals what was already inside you.
It is like a mirror you cannot avoid.
The mature partner will say, “What is this teaching me about myself?” The immature one will blame all day.
Marriage is not only about loving someone else. It is about growing up.
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As a man, it’s never your job to guard your woman from other men hitting on her, flirting, or even trying to steal her. That’s her responsibility. A woman who truly loves and respects you will set her own boundaries.
A 🧵 1/3 >>>>>
Je suis pas une affolé du mariage mais la baraka d’Allah c’est quand même wow Sourate An-Nour (24:32) :
« Mariez les célibataires d’entre vous…
S’ils sont pauvres, Allah les enrichira par Sa grâce. »
Tout le monde n’a pas pour but de devenir riche,mais d’avoir le minimum pour être à l’abri du besoin et vivre de manière épanouie et ça, c’est la vraie richesse. Ne te compare à personne, la paix intérieure vaut plus que n’importe quelle fortune.
Le Coran :
Si vous ne le mémorisez pas, révisez-le.
Si vous ne le révisez pas, alors lisez le.
Si vous ne le lisez pas, alors écoutez le.
Ce qui est important c’est que votre journée ne soit pas vide du Coran.