It used to be said:
“Do not marry your noble daughter except to an intelligent man. If he loves her, he will honour her, and if he comes to dislike her, he will still treat her fairly. and do not marry the woman under your care except to a man of religion. If he loves her, he will treat her well, and if he comes to dislike her, he will not wrong her.”
Surround yourself with people who genuinely value, respect, and appreciate your presence.
Being celebrated means your contributions are recognised, your efforts are appreciated, and your presence brings happiness to others. In such an environment, people encourage your growth, defend your honour, and want the best for you.
Ibn ʿAbbās said,
“I owe three rights to the one who sits with me:
- that I turn my attention towards him when he comes,
- that I make room for him when he sits,
- and that I listen attentively when he speaks.