Gentlemen, if you're confused about where you rank in the dating game, here's a simple litmus test:
Your lifestyle.
If your lifestyle screams mediocrity, don't be surprised when you're lost in the crowd.
You need an emotionally compelling lifestyle.
You need skills and competence. A man who is adept at conducting business with others.
You need dependable male friends you can rely on.
Above all, you need a higher purpose and mission in life.
Do you have a reason to be?
If you know who you are (what you believe to be true) and if you are willing to stand up and risk it all in the service to those believes (in the service of your mission) THEN you are a men.
4. Embrace the Ephemeral - Relationships, like life, have seasons. Some last a summer, others endure winter. Get comfortable with change; it's the only constant.
@LatinaCasanova Why amplify the pain? Remember, nostalgia is a liar.
It paints the past with gold.
Put on tracks that empower. Your future self doesn't need reminders of past mistakes.
@MasculinePeak Refuse to be someone's plan B. Aim to be the gold standard, not the backup option. If she didn't see your value from the start, she doesn't deserve your finale.
What women want:
Women wan't to be able to look up to a guy.
They want to feel save because he is stronger and taller.
They want to feel taken care of because he has an established lifestyle and resources that can generous provide for her and and potential children.
The most common male romantic fantasy is:
'I can be loved for who I am.'
Deep down in the heart of hearts, that's what every man wants to hear from a women:
'You are enough. I don't need anything else. I am just in love with who you are.'