[WATCH] I did not join the struggle to please or satisfy anyone. The problem with factions is that they can become elevated into expressions of personal importance. You cannot allow yourself to be controlled by, or solely accountable to, a faction to the extent that it becomes institutionalised.
#YearOfDecisiveAction
A Christian lady says that Pork is forbidden in Christianity:
“The bible forbids pork because pigs are bottom feeders. They are the scum of the earth. How can you have a healthy body if you are consuming scum.”
Today I was Studying
*Matthew 4. The Temptations of Jesus. And I noticed something.*
There's a *pattern* here that nobody really talks about.
The first temptation — it was about *appetite*. And comfort. The enemy, yes, *the devil*, of course he knew Jesus was hungry after forty days of fasting. That's not a small thing. So he came at the most obvious point of weakness. But what did Jesus say?
It was beyond just knowing scriptures. This was *application*. *"Man shall not live by bread alone."* Jesus knew — you have to master your own appetites. You have to live according to how God wants you to live. According to *His* word. Not your hunger.
The second temptation — this one was about *identity*. He took him to the pinnacle of the temple and basically told him, *throw yourself down. Test God.* But Jesus? If he didn't know his identity, that would've worked. He understood that God is not to be *tested*. Yes, God protects him — but God also has... his *boundaries*. He knew who God was. And because he knew who God was, he knew who *he* was.
The third one — *the heart*. The state of the heart. Because guess what — if your heart is not towards God? Like, if it's even slightly turned? The enemy will *absolutely* try and test you there. He showed him all the kingdoms of the world. He went straight for the throne of the heart.
*Three doors the enemy tries to walk through. Appetite. Identity. The state of the heart.*
Where is your appetite? Are you that kind of Christian who eats 365 days a year, seven days a week, thirty days a month — and never *fasts*? Like, yes.
Do you know your identity in Christ? Do you know your limitations? Do you know your authority, your power, your inheritance, your heritage?
And how is your heart? Is your heart bent towards the Master — or towards the kingdoms of this world?
These are the three doors. And Jesus showed us exactly how to shut them.
There Are Women Who Make Men
Not every woman is just a lover or a wife. Some are builders of kings. They don’t just walk into your life with beauty and charm. They bring grace, vision, and power. They carry wombs not just for babies—but for dreams, destinies, and greatness.
There are women who make men.
They don’t compete with you. They complete you.
They don’t belittle your struggles. They believe in your potential.
They don’t walk away when life gets hard. They dig their heels in and fight beside you—sometimes for you.
These women are not loud with their greatness. They are quietly powerful. When you’re down, they see the man you're meant to be—not just the man you are. They speak to your future, even when your present is broken. They don’t just offer comfort; they offer clarity. They challenge you to rise, not because they’re disappointed—but because they know there’s more inside you.
Some men were never noticed until they met her.
She saw the gold beneath the dust. She pushed him toward purpose. She covered him in prayer. She healed wounds she didn’t cause. She carried burdens that weren’t hers. And she did it with a smile, not because it was easy, but because she believed he was worth it.
There are women who make men.
Not with control, but with counsel.
Not with pressure, but with peace.
Not with force, but with faith.
These women are rare. If you find one—value her.
Don’t just marry her—honor her.
Don’t just call her your woman—call her your destiny helper.
Because behind many strong men is not just a woman—but a wise woman. A warring woman. A wounded but winning woman. A woman who chose to build rather than break, to uplift rather than undermine.
If you are a man who has such a woman, never forget—you didn’t become great alone.
And if you are a woman reading this, may you be reminded that your strength is not in loudness, but in the quiet, consistent ways you make the world around you better. Your kind is not common, but your impact is eternal.
Yes, there are women who make men. And the world is better because of them.