Y’all be missing the whole message that God be trying to send you. He be removing people (gf, bf, bestfriend, side piece, bm, babydaddy) that aren’t good for you whether it’s sending them to jail, showing their betrayal, disloyalty and/or even relocating you. He does all of these things because he knew you didn’t have the strength to do it on your own and y’all still report back and hang on to the same person he tried to get you away from and then wonder why y’all get hurt, life don’t get better or you keep repeating the same dilemmas. Like come on man tighten up. You don’t have time to stay distracted and to keep investing your time, energy and emotions into something that was suppose to be let go when God did what he did.