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I am writing this with such a broken heart. 💔 I have written a post like this before, and I will write it again because our men are going through the most.
People don't always see it because many men suffer in silence. They smile in public, but cry alone. They continue working while carrying pain nobody knows about.
When a man has been emotionally, mentally, spiritually, or financially stripped by someone he loved, the wounds run deep. Healing a broken man is not easy. It takes time to remove layer after layer of pain, disappointment, betrayal, rejection, and trauma.
Many men have sat in front of me or even through call and apologized for crying.
"Gogo, I'm sorry for crying."
Why are you apologizing?
You are human.
Tears are not weakness. Sometimes they are the beginning of healing.
When a man finally feels safe enough to cry, to speak, and to be vulnerable, it says a lot. It means he has finally found a place where he doesn't have to pretend to be strong.
Ladies, please... stop hurting people because you are hurting.
Yes, there are evil men in this world, and I will never deny that. There are men who abuse, manipulate, and destroy lives. But today, I am speaking for the good men who are carrying broken souls and heavy hearts.
Some have been falsely accused. Some have lost access to their children. Some have been emotionally destroyed. Some have been financially drained. Some have survived relationships that left scars no one can see.
A simple "sorry" can never erase the damage that has already been done.
Bafethu...
Please start choosing yourselves.
Love yourselves.
Protect your peace.
Protect your mind.
Protect your spirit.
Stop staying where you are tolerated instead of loved.
Know your worth.
A red flag is enough. Walk away.
Respect yourself enough to leave what is destroying you.
Don't stay because abantu bazothini.
Don't stay because of the surname.
Don't stay because of the children.
Sometimes walking away is how you save your life.
Fight for your children.
Stand your ground.
Pray. 🙏🏾
Be quiet when you need to. 🤫
Heal.
Forgive yourself.
Start again.
Healing a man is one of the hardest journeys because many were taught to hide their emotions instead of dealing with them. But healing is possible.
Rather be single than share your life with someone who steals your peace.
Choose peace over pressure.
Choose healing over suffering.
Choose yourself before you lose yourself.
Bafethu, please look after yourselves.
Your life matters.
Your mental health matters.
Your heart matters.
You deserve peace.
One day, this pain will become your testimony.
Nkulunkulu akanilahli. Your ancestors have not forgotten you.
Stay strong. Your comeback will be greater than your heartbreak. ❤️🙏🏾
Chakra Hun Gogo Sifiso 🙏🏾
@VNobula@theseerheals I was about to say that hey worse they will ask for things and knowing it very well that you don't have means to do so. And also times have changed drastically 🥺we living in an adjust world