I live in isolation not of my choosing &, despite desperately wanting it, haven’t experienced human intimacy in years. Want to find a wife here & have children.
Patron of the unloved and unlovely, perhaps ‘unloveable’ but that wouldn’t be correct as even though many may reckon since he could that doesn’t ring true. Like so many not a Catholic but found a sense of communion when he reached out to me. True grit, tough as nails but yielding
Otherwise applaud his disclosures. However I cannot condone not because they are cringe and smut but because of the social reaction that could be anticipated and how that would reflect on his children and wife. It comes across myopic and wrongheaded - indulgent because of that.
The issue I find with Twitter and society in general (not just social media) are the airs and pretence people put on. People cosplay being ‘relatable’ talk about ‘real …’ however to be vulnerable you have to express what are perceived to be real flaws but to do so is unbecoming.
What has spurred this is the public shaming of Prince Harry but he is in the privilege of being rich, having a family, married etc. his remarks don’t just reflect on him at this stage but those around. I am a fan of the radical honesty though and while others go TMI I would
Hearts on their sleeve. Grab these folk, crush out any hope and promise they feel for a future and over the course of 50+ hopeless dinners/picnics/cocktails/movies turn them into soulless husks who despite having the same urge for love are now entrenched and riddled with despair.
It’s been a few years since I was thrown off all the dating apps (which I found ironic since I never met anyone I was able to go home/sleep with) but reflecting back on the experience it’s clear the modern ‘dating game’ is designed to battery farm those starry eyed who have their
It would elicit a shock (invariably a sympathy masked with “ewww what’s this man’s problem?”) these days on the rare occasion I am asked the question no lady bats an eye. Posit when I was younger it was noteworthy but as I’ve aged and lost any looks it seems perfectly logical.
Theory of diminishing shock at sexual scarcity as one ages: often when I was younger a girl who seemed into me but never was (perhaps just kissing etc but no intercourse or sexual acts) would ask the Q ‘how long since you last y’know’ and whether it was months or a year 1/2
Girls be like ‘I want you to be yourself, I want you to express how you feel, I like you when you be yourself’. Then as soon as you be your intense, goofy, open self they flee