@Laceandarcana Literally yes. Do not use Amazon wishlist. Switch to using @youpay they’re amazing and for the girls. I used them on my previous Twitter before moving to this one & loved em.
You’re over here trying to defend this in the comments talking about “it’s that specific person-centered” and how you and your ex used to stay on the phone all night while you were out doing 100 activities. 😭 First of all, the first half of that sounds like emotional dependence. And being unable to spend time with other people without staying on the phone with your partner the entire time can absolutely point to insecurity, jealousy, or an unhealthy level of attachment.
Because why are you on the phone with your partner for hours while you’re literally spending time with people in person? 😭 You’re already there. Be present with the people you’re actually with.
And saying “I can go six months without female contact when I’m single” doesn’t really prove anything either. Nobody said your entire life has to revolve around women/men for the behavior to be female/male-centered. The issue is prioritizing your romantic relationship to the point that it interferes with your other relationships and your ability to simply be present.
Ironically, you’re the one throwing around words that don’t actually describe what’s happening 😭
So I loved my time with throne. But after today my throne will be a barren wasteland 🫡 & my YouPay will be opened to all submissives and goonberries alike
Hey, you sound like a dumbass who doesn’t know how to use Google
Findom: A type of domination where money or financial control is a big part of the power dynamic.
Femdom: A type of domination where a woman takes the dominant role, and money doesn’t have to be involved.
Do better ! Or get out of the kink community because you’re ruining it!
This goes for everyone who comes across this comment & doesn’t know the difference between femdom or findom and has a little pissy party because they can’t get dominated for free because they won’t take the time to find FEMDOM.
It has little to do with actually being submissive and more about the underlying kink. This space is oversaturated with people who think they’re entitled to femdom if they partake in findom.
Just because they go hand in hand doesn’t mean they’re the same kink. You can have femdom without findom.
You can have findom with femdom, but femdom is “””unlocked””” by checking off the box for Findom.
There’s a giant difference between
Findom: A type of domination where money or financial control is a big part of the power dynamic
Femdom: A type of domination where a woman takes the dominant role, and money doesn’t have to be involved.
FIND PEOPLE WHO FIT YOUR FETISHES. STOP TRYING TO BUY SERVICES FROM PEOPLE WHO DO NOT WANT TO SERVICE YOU.
Paying a findom to femdom you is NOT going to get you the desired outcome
@spoiled_sophie Convinced this only started happening because of that one domme that started taking on subs and giving them all their money back after their debts were paid off
I FORGOOOOTTTTT
So whenever I got thrown from the horse the barn owner gave me sum “Mud” and it’s got bentonite clay, epson salt, vinegar, witch hazel, and essential oils in it
Baaaabbbbyyyyy let me tell you! The bruise looks fucking horrific but there’s minimal pain.
When handing it to me she said “we’re mud people over here, we swear by the mud” and I’ll be damned I swear by the fucking mud
My eyes are GREEEN! Green like the moss in an untouched, undiscovered forest. Green like the algae drifting through the farthest reaches of the sea. Green like a freshly born caterpillar
Green like something you weren’t supposed to find. Green like something that watches you back.