The reason parents are strict and set many rules for children is because they pay for everything. Once you start earning your own money, you usually gain more freedom.
It also applies to relationships. If someone has to pay for everything, don’t expect to be free from control.
As a man, if you’re still dealing with girls that need money for; Nails, Hair, Food, Cooking gas, Rent & Internet connection.
You don’t love yourself.
Normalize being very direct, very straight to the point and very assertive. A surprising amount of tension in adult life exist because people avoid saying what they actually mean.
Until you date a generous and responsible woman, you will never understand how much women love spending on the man they love and being financially responsible to the family.
She experienced a fraction of what men deal with every day and couldn’t handle it.
The very thing she killed herself over is what many women casually describe as ‘he just went to work.’