I used to think the hardest part was waiting for your reply. It wasnโt. The hardest part was realizing that I would never make you wait the way you made me wait. When you texted me, I answered because I cared. When I texted you, you answered when you had time. And somewhere between those two differences, I finally understood that we werenโt loving the same way. I was making space for you in my life. You were fitting me into yours. I felt it every time I checked my phone.๏ฟผ
non-sexual intimacy is such a lost art. the eye contact, the gentle touch, deep conversations, holding hands, mutual support, hugging, non sexual massages, cooking together, shared experiences, cuddles, curiosity, silence that feels warm. i can go on and on about this.
fear the hottest relationship dynamic is a woman acting like an unhinged little creature while the man just finds her endlessly entertaining instead of emotionally draining