So many people in the replies talking about how they used to fantasize about dying by the hands of their parents when they were children, just so their parents would feel just a little bit of guilt
Yet people still think beating children is just discipline and not abuse.
btw anticipating being strict and authoritarian to an unborn child is very odd to me because have you even considered that your child might be a chill guy?
you see how nobody is invalidating people talking about the abuse they went through at the hands of their mothers? let’s keep that same energy when people start talking about deadbeat and abusive fathers too.