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Am I really wrong for refusing to birth another child? I really need honest opinions because it’s breaking my home💔
When I got pregnant for my first child, I almost didn’t make it out alive.
My pregnancy was a nightmare from start to finish. Constant complications, hospital admissions, referrals… it was like my body was rejecting everything.
When it was finally time for delivery, things got worse.
I had an emergency C-section.
We were referred from the hospital I did antenatal to another one because they said they didn’t have the facilities to handle my case anymore.
By the time we got there, it was already a life-or-death situation.
The bill came out to almost ₦3 million.
My husband didn’t have it.
I’m not blaming him… but at that moment, my life was literally hanging.
It was family and friends that stepped in, contributed money, borrowed, begged, and helped us settle the bill before I could go into surgery.
I still remember waking up and hearing how close I came to not surviving it.
Since then, I told myself one thing:
I don’t ever want to go through that kind of fear again.
Fast forward to one year later…
My husband now wants another baby.
But I refused.
Not because I don’t want children… but because I don’t want to risk my life again without preparation.
So I told him my condition: