@StonerDaddie@NigeriaStories You call this rescue? No arrest , no terrorist eliminated, rescue so dey could kidnap they next victim right? Ya'll should continue...
Because humans possess mirror neurons that naturally force us to match the vocal pacing of the person we are interacting with, they will subconsciously drop their volume and calm their nervous system just to hear what you are saying.
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The Whisper Shift (Subconscious Mimicry)
If someone is angry or speaking too loudly at you, do not yell back. Drop your voice to an incredibly quiet, steady whisper. they will subconsciously drop their volume and calm their nervous system just to hear what you are saying.
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@instablog9ja Someone lend you Money, you have to pay back. the person now realize that your income isn't flowing and this means you won't be able to payback the money you're owing so he advised you but you have a big y*nsh why not do ashewo to improve your income, nt out of love but his money
@instablog9ja 1. Can two walk together unless they agree? (Amos 3:3) I think we have different visions for the future."
2. You are wonderful, but you are not the rib I was made for.
3. I have been praying about us, and I feel God is calling us in different directions.
The Ben Franklin Effect
Getting someone to do a small favor for you actually makes them like you more.
The brain hates cognitive dissonance (holding two conflicting beliefs). Their brain reasons: "I wouldn't do a favor for someone I dislike, so I'll like this person
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In psychology there's something known as "Confirmation Bias" Once you form an opinion about your partner, your brain actively seeks proof to support it. You will naturally ignore any behavior that contradicts that belief.
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Tip: If you chew gum when you study a subject and then chew the same flavor when you take the test it can help you remember.
Itโs called context-dependent memory, your brain links the flavor, smell, and setting to the info you learned.
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According to research, 85% of relationships where partners have had to break up and make up don't end in marriage.
This is called "on-again, off again relationships" or "relationship churning" this is linked to poor relationship quality.
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@instablog9ja Is psychology this is known as Gaslighting.
An abuser distorts the truth to make you doubt your own memory or sanity. Over time, you stop trusting yourself and rely completely on their version of reality.
@winnerx0@SumitM_X Won't query break? For e.g when the post is among the list of posts returned and there's a join on userid and post. Won't query break if the userid is now null?
@Timidey4you Mindset of cowards... The reason most of you would die surviving... Until we live beyond this survival mentality neither we nor the generations to come would live a full fledged life .