The concept of having children is arguably the most selfish decision in life.
And you owe that child every form of support until either of you leaves this world because they didn't ask to be here.
Because you and your partner enjoy sex, you decided to procreate. Now you have adults in this world fighting for their lives, crying, struggling, and working hard just to survive because they no longer have any other option. If you ask most people, many will tell you they don’t want to be here.
So as a parent, you are not doing your child(ren) a favor by raising them to their full potential. It is your responsibility. You made a selfish decision. They couldn't consent to being here because they didn't have that ability. Now deal with the weight of raising them, regardless of how difficult it becomes. That is the consequence of your decision.
The moment you bring a child into the world, you assume a lifelong responsibility. Food, shelter, education, guidance, emotional support; none of these are special favors deserving applause. They are the bare minimum. You created the obligation the day you chose to become a parent.
…more than being washed, I’d like to think of it as the cycle of life, we’ve handed over to the generations behind us and thats OK!! Nna tota ke amogetse seemo, my hey days are done and I do not wish to go back!!🙏🏾✌🏾
Women lose sexual interest when they're emotionally disappointed, and I’m not going to argue about that. A woman can love you deeply, stay loyal, support you through hard times, and still slowly disconnect the moment she feels unheard, unappreciated, or emotionally neglected. Most people think attraction disappears because of looks, time, or routine, but emotional disappointment is what quietly changes everything.
I’ve started appreciating days where nothing dramatic happens. no bad news, no stressful interactions, no overwhelming thoughts. just a normal, quiet day where everything is calm. those are the days that actually feel like rest.
I wish we fought harder for the survival of SMEs in these times with practical, systemic solutions. I also wish SMEs fought harder for themselves by maintaining excellent service delivery despite this global downturn.
After giving birth, a woman's internal wounds take six months to heal, 12 months for physical recovery, two years for hormonal balance, and up to five years to rediscover her identity. Relationships frequently fail during this time due to a lack of understanding. Be kind and patient with new mothers; they are facing more challenges than it appears.
Inimba is so quick with it bra?! This is my show! What do you mean Onga found out about Qhawe AND Ntsiki found the culprit in one episode? This is my show!