Shajara Loop

Written memories 🫟
She/her

[Shajara Loop @MsNyagu]

This was the lesson I have learned this year.

[َ @gffyoq]

sometimes you don't need time to heal but need more experiences to show your nervous system a different reality.

[BODE @neverelent]

Anything coming from me is genuine

The love and the hate.

[Salt and Light✨ @thearikesamuel]

“What a privilege it is to be a fan of your friends.

I look forward to a lifetime of celebrating their brilliance.”

[Hanifa @Honeyfarsafi]

You’ll forget them on a random Tuesday, and that’s the strange mercy of time.
If you left for reasons you knew were real, let the ending have its dignity. Don’t turn a breakup into a negotiation simply because you miss someone. Respect their distance. Resist the urge to chase, explain or prove that you still care.
When nostalgia arrives, remember why you left. We have a tendency to mourn the person we lost and forget the person we were when we decided we had had enough.
You can miss them. You can love them. You can even leave a small corner of your heart open to the possibility that life may cross your paths again.
But you don't have to act on the feeling.
Some things are not meant to be fought for twice. Sometimes you honour what you had by having the courage to let it end.

[Elizabeth 🌼🌻 @LizOgunoye]

Increase your surface area for luck, leave your home often, take another route. Let more luck find you.

[my book is better than my tweets @MichellCClark]

let me save you a few years of confusion:

being able to endure something is not proof that you should keep enduring it. you’re allowed to discern that a situation is not right for you before the wheels fall off.

[Shajara Loop @MsNyagu]

And I am back here.
I wonder what is draining my energy?!

[Shajara Loop @MsNyagu]

This week I do not want to deal or speak to anyone if I do not have to.

I am currently on strike 2, I am 1 strike away from a crash out so imma avoid any triggers for a few days.

Good thing I know exactly what I need to do. 😇

[🤍 @fromawife]

Regardless of what I post on social media or what you heard about me, I want you to understand that you don't know me.

[𝑪𝒂𝒓𝒐𝒍𝒊𝒏𝒂 @Carolinnakcz]

Mi honesta reacción después de ver a un tipo escupir en plena vía pública

[​𝐥𝐲𝐫𝐚 @sunnkssdseraph]

We are slowly removing coincidence out of our lives. We don't pick a restaurant before even checking the ratings. We don't hear music before the algorithm ever predicts we'll like it. We don't even take a route before maps removes the wrong turn. Barely meet someone even before checking their profile. And none of that is necessarily bad. But that's what makes it interesting because every tool nowadays removes every tiny bit of uncertainty, but uncertainty is where a lot of your favorite memories came from. The place you found by accident, the friend you met because the plans changed. The street you weren't supposed to be on that ended up having the best restaurant you've ever been to. We've optimized our life so well to the point where nothing unexpected ever has room to even happen and a life with no accidents is easier to manage, but it's just harder to remember.

[Shajara Loop @MsNyagu]

I love dealing with people who keep their word.

[T @dfwtee_]

i fear that i understand perspective so well that i end up erasing my own valid anger.

[Shajara Loop @MsNyagu]

I have cackled at this. It is so mean 😂😂

[Unexpected Happiness🌹❤ @doris_mash]

hanzi “I will only reply to White people from South Africas, it is only fair to speak to the man of the house” ahhhh pabikwa ndatii🙌🏾😂😂

[Mel Reneé @MelReneeStyles]

“Every return to myself is more sacred than the last.”

[Shajara Loop @MsNyagu]

@Randommest @DukeofEmbu92 And that right there is a losing battle for all involved.

[Shajara Loop @MsNyagu]

2 years back I used to think like this. I thought I had met the kind of person you marry and had lost my chance.

This year I met someone who ticked every box and some and now I am convinced there is no such thing as you cannot meet another one!

There are great people out here.

[Scion of the land 🇰🇪 🇵🇸 @DukeofEmbu92]

I believe that every grown man and woman has that one relationship that went tits up and knows that they are probably never getting it that good again.

The difference is, we don't keep reminiscing about them because we know it handicaps any potential partner right off the bat.

[Shajara Loop @MsNyagu]

@nishjustbored Zote 😂

[Shajara Loop @MsNyagu]

Pumpkins and matoke. I can take a bite or two of matoke before I feel disgusted.

[Raven @ravenunreal]

What food can you NOT eat because of the texture? Not the taste. The texture.

[🥷 @_iamhabeeb]

Laughing with your mom is genuinely one of the best feelings ever.

[Ms•Deee @deeeeoflagos]

I'm not ashamed to say it. I've overplayed my role more times than I can count. Not because I'm desperate, not because I lack self-respect, but because when I care... I care for real. I pour. I show up. I love in a way I want to be loved back. And yes, sometimes I hurt my own feelings doing it. But at least I know my heart was honest. I stand by that.

[⋆ @lowkeyalbert]

how it feels to be extremely self aware but still repeat the same self destructive patterns