What do you mean “you’re not going to your friend’s birthday dinner if she’s not paying for your meal.” But let that small boy call you, you’re ready to pay R250 for an uber at 1 am to see him. Y’all hate your friends ✋
The “uzotshatwa njani when you’re always…” brigade can sit down.
The goal was never to be picked. The goal is to be found by someone who fits your actual life like a glove, not someone you had to contort yourself into shape for.