Forgive your abusers
Forgive your parents. Forgive your abusive relatives. Forgive your ex.
Give them grace. Understand that they're only humans with imperfections (just like anyone else)
Because the grudge you hold will have you attracting more abusers.
“It's hard to share your past trauma because you fear rejection and alienation from people.
But the more you keep them in, the more its effects grow. The less you trust people. And the harder it is to forgive yourself .”
“It's your job to become the person you're meant to be. Do things you don't feel like doing:
🎯 Have the Hard Conversations
🎯 Cancel Toxic Relationships
🎯 Dive into The Unknown
Making yourself uncomfortable is the fastest way to become the person you're meant to be!”
“Never hesitate to let those people off the hook who do not appreciate you or value you. Life is ready to give you better options, you just have to have faith and let go!”
“Leaving a toxic relationship, reinforcing your boundaries and putting your happiness first is very important. Spend time with people who love you and who build you up rather than tear you down.”
“It's not always the world around you,sometimes you’re the toxic person. Understand that you make mistakes & can hurt people.Apologise,unlearn & relearn,that’s growth.Understand that there are things you need to work-on,striving for improvement, instead of faking perfection!”
”ہم نے اپنے پیغمبروں کو کھلی ہوئی نشانیاں دے کر بھیجا،او�� اُن کے ساتھ کتاب بھی اتاری اور ترازو بھی،تاکہ لوگ انصاف پر قائم رہیں“۔”قسط“عدل کےتمام معانی کو شامل ہے،اور جب کوئی شخص منہج اعتدال پر چلتاہے تو وہ خود سے اور دسروں سےانصاف کرتاہے اور اس طرح وہ دین ودنیا کی فلاح پاتاہے۔
Say, "I seek refuge in the Lord of mankind, The Master of mankind. The God of mankind, from the evil of the lurking whisperer - Who whispers [evil] into the hearts of mankind - From among the jinn and mankind."
#Quran 114:1-6
Trust own instincts, live by your own values. Dismiss the chattering opinions of the critics around you. Don't give them a vote on your dreams, they don't deserve one!
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