The more people you let go of, the more free you become. Don't keep many friends 99 of them probably hate you and wish for your failure lowkey. Usiogope marafiki wabaya let them go. Send that text umuambie we are no longer friends and feel the wave of peace.
Always say, if a woman loses value after you fuck her, then you are a thing that ruins people. You are a worthless destroyer and you should sit with why you feel that way about yourself, and stay from women.
When someone doesn't like you, they eventually team up with someone else who feels the same. And before long, there's an entire group talking behind your back. But here's the truth. People who gossip about you or hate you don't even enjoy each other's company. The only thing holding them together is their obsession with you. See how powerful you are.
Sometimes I look at a person and think, how could you hurt me like this? You were supposed to be my safe place. The one person I could lower my guard around, the one I trusted with the parts of me I never showed anyone else. I never expected perfection from you, I just expected gentleness. That’s what makes it hurt so much, knowing the person I trusted to protect my heart became the reason I had to protect it in the first place.
Women need women/sisterhood. Women need community. But women also need men. We need to feel safe in the presence of men. We need to feel supported, honored, and respected by men. We need to rise together, we’re better together. That’s how Creation was designed
You ever forgive a man so many times he starts looking ugly to you? 😭 Nothing he says is funny anymore, his charm is gone, and “I’m on my way” sounds like a threat to your peace. 💀😂
It’s because you see yourself as of no value and can’t ADD to the beauty you saw to begin with. You basically see yourself as ugly and everything you touch becomes ugly.
The most liberating thing you can do as a woman is to unlearn shame. Shame is one of the lowest frequencies. Release the shame around your sexuality, your body, people's perceptions of you, around what you actually enjoy, and the rigid structures that society tells you about.
Some women don't flirt with people. They flirt with life. Extra twenty minutes at the café. Fresh flowers for no reason. Music while getting dressed. Taking the scenic way because the sky looks good. There's romance happening between her and being alive.