Well we are nothing if not re-inventive. With every life experience we learn what to not do ever again and how to adapt to our current situations. We are always learning about ourselves and changing. I seriously don’t know anyone that has it all figured out...
True kindness isn't something we're born with. It's something we have to work at. Not everyone has it. But I think everyone has the potential. Sometimes you just have to look really close before you can tell it's there."
If it is sensible to believe that a person becomes who she/he dreams to be, then it is also reasonable to ponder if the beggars and buggers dreamt to be who they are like in their lives.
Words themselves aren't that important. Even if somebody says words that shock you, or make you want to kill them, or make you tremble with emotion, the words themselves you tend to forget in time. Words are just tools we use to express or communicate something.
No one ever wants to lose someone they love. But it is an essential part of life. You are bound to lose someone. Someone you always thought would be around. Someone you love. Someone you need. Someone you wish had stayed around a little longer. Loss is inevitable.