My boyfriend sells phone and accessories.
I told him that I wanted to change my phone and he told me to come to his store.
I went and he acted like he didn't know me.
He told his boy to attend to me, I bought goods of over 1Million and I paid in full.
Two weeks later, he told me to bring hairs to his store that his sister wants to buy hair.
She picked hairs of 1.5Million and he paid me 1Million, he said he'll pay me the rest later.
I told him No because the last time I came to his store, I paid for everything in full.
This is a business that I started with loans and he has never supported me with any amount.
I returned his money and packed my hairs.
It's been two weeks since then, he hasn't called me and I've not called him either.
Deep down, I know the relationship is over and I don't care.
Dear career woman, please, when it is time to make a lifetime commitment, do not marry down.
If you want to enjoy both your career and your marriage, be careful about marrying a man you are significantly ahead of academically and financially.
As time goes on your career will grow. Your income will grow. Your exposure and responsibilities will grow. If your husband is unable to grow with you, that gap will eventually become a source of conflict in the marriage.
Do not make the mistake of thinking love alone will close that gap. You may live to regret it.
Choose a man whose ambition, capacity and mindset is greater than yours so you can always look up to him.
If you so desire to be an exception, then good luck to you.
@B_abiodun44@Hybrid_Ola Shebi you have started. If they enter you now, you will start screaming you are a pastor Abi na doctor you called yourself. See his comment like his face.
@Lifeof_AG01 If someone ghosts you after you finally open up and match their energy, understand this: they weren't ready for the version of you that gives back what they gave.
Your feelings didn't scare them away. Their own fears did.
I don't want a friendship where I have to constantly feed your ego just to make sure the relationship is intact.
The privilege of friendship is that we both have access to constructively criticize one another.
The aim is to "grow" not just to feel good.
unfortunately they are not always gonna be brave enough to tell you that they are no longer vibing with you , you just need to read the energies and remove yourself from the equation