The worst people in the Sight of Allah on the Day of Resurrection will be the double faced people who appear to some people with one face and to other people with another face
[Bukhari]
Your most likely to inherit the traits and life of the people you are raised around. If that’s not the life suitable for you or something your here to settle for then all the weight is on your shoulders to break that barrier. Is it possible? Yes is it easy? No