Hate to break it to you, but any friendship/relationship where the other person has unconditional access to you and they're only accessible to you when they choose to be, is not healthy no matter what it seems like. You're just too giving and selfless to see it but that's toxic.
Since youre too stupid to get it.
Most People dont umbrella hate the trans- they hate your shit tier behavior.
Claiming characters
Being hostile in discussions
Death threats
Threats of suicide if you dont get your way
Calling everyone an ist and phobe over the softest of things
Harassing artists for drawing the wrong thing
Demanding other people represent you in media instead of you making your own wonderful thing to share with the world
Demanding every show represent you
The zelda thing that just happened
I have trans followers, lgb followers. They hate it too. Most people just quietly want to live life. Your shit tier behavior is too noisy for people to ignore anymore and it is tiring. And worst of all? Your shit behavior sadly reflects poorly on ALL the community instead of just you, because unfortunately yall love to get loud with your hate.
The most recent example being the artists who just drew straight ships and art. Loads of you performative type sent death threats, violent threats, got down with some really messed up muslim racism, etc.